One of the wonderful insights of Tantra is that female energy is like a river — you can never step in the same water twice, as it is always flowing and changing. For the male partner, this means it is important to remember that making love to a woman requires your total attention to how she’s feeling in the moment, not remembering what turned her on last time you made love.
However there are some guidance posts in the physical structure of a yoni that you can use as relaxed guidance.
In my last newsletter, I described the first type – the violet. Today, I’m going to describe another yoni type – the Tulip.
If you love the act of intercourse itself, and prefer short genital foreplay, this is the yoni type for you.
Of course, you can extend the time of connection with her through
synchronized breathing, expressing your admiration and affection and with an exquisite Tantric body massage.
Her yoni’s appearance may not be very impressive. She has a tiny clitoris next to the vaginal opening. Sometimes it’s not even hooded, so it’s very sensitive.
Her inner lips are usually very small and thin, but also very sensitive.
But appearance does not determine sensation, and the woman with a Tulip yoni is blessed with a body that is well suited to the pleasure of the sexual act.
For her, the position of the clitoris makes it possible for her to be easily stimulated during intercourse, and the G-spot is close to the entrance and easily reached.
As you know, the G-spot is the lower end of the clitoris, which is the north pole of the yoni. Clitoris and G-spot are merging into the same sexual organ of pleasure.
In this type of yoni, the size of the vaginal cave is very deep, and can easily accommodate even longer sized lingams.
This type of yoni is usually dry because she is hot and tends to evaporate the moisture quite fast. Please make sure that you have good lubrication close by when you make love to her.
Her amrita can taste from sweet to tart depending on her emotional mood.
If you do love to give her genital foreplay, be very, very gentle and slow; because of the sensitivity of both her clitoris and her inner lips. She likes to be stimulated by massaging and squeezing her outer lips together.
Often, this yoni tends to prefer intercourse to foreplay or oral because direct clitoral stimulation can actually be painful, and her clitoris receives a lot of stimulation from penetration alone.
She likes hard, fast intercourse with deep thrusting and movements that cause the lingam popping in and out of the vaginal entrance.
Her preferred intercourse positions? Well, she likes them all, but
especially positions that give her deep penetration. Positions with her
legs up are among her favorite ones.
Enjoy getting to know the woman first, and then delight in getting to know her yoni.