Sex gets better when you uand your partner understand each other’s desires. The secret is communicating with words AND bodies, and learning to read your partner to make sex passionate and hot. [click to continue…]
The Art of Touching
Just as knowing techniques of painting doesn’t necessarily make you an artist, knowing tantric techniques does not necessarily make you a good lover.
A good artist goes within and feels what and how he or she wants to express. A good artist doesn’t remember what strokes to make… they dig deep into their own feelings to express the object being painted.
Similarly, when you touch your lover, it’s important to approach it artistically. You dig deep into your own feelings and are present to your lover who’s receiving your touch.
When you touch, choose to express your deep love. You become profoundly present to your touch, feeling your hands flooded with love energy and you are tuning into your lover and feel how he or she wants to be touched.
So basically, you need to be present both to your giving touch and to the receiver receiving it.
What can you do if they are not present? Is there something your can whisper in their ears that will take them away from their thinking mind into the here and now? When we are not present, we are thinking or expecting a result.
French kissing probably is the signature kissing during the ‘falling in love’ period.
Sadly, for most couples, however, it’s a common sign that the romantic love has taken a backseat. It is wonderful to see couples enjoying kissing with perfect concentration where ever they find themselves, completely ignoring who’s around them. They lustfully merge with each other’s energy and fluids, which starts to speed up the production of happy hormones.
Unfortunately, most lovers who have been together for more that 2 or 3 years, avoid French kissing and substitute it with smooching or pecking kisses that in most cases diminish instead of increasing the turn on.
Why does this happen?
Did you know that there are 3 tantric levels of foreplay that set the stage for the highest experience you could imagine?
Good lovers know that foreplay is a very important part of really fulfilling lovemaking, but only great lovers are aware that foreplay begins even before touching and kissing.
In fact, there are two levels of foreplay before touching and kissing.
The steps that precede foreplay, which I call “pre-foreplay” are essential, and yet not most men no nothing about them, or they are so driven to speed up lovemaking by the impelling energy in their sex center that wants to release, that they just ignore these steps.
But, when you skip over pre-foreplay, you miss out on incredible heights of pleasure in your lovemaking. [click to continue…]
Our human heart wants to sprout, too. It wants to give life to a new, fresher, deeper love. We long to celebrate life’s infinite abundance and joyous expression with our human nature, giving spring a brighter color.
And the best way I know to celebrate the coming of the spring season is Tantric Lovemaking! [click to continue…]