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Breathing Techniques for Better Lovemaking – Part 2

In my last post, I started a discussion about using breathing techniques during lovemaking. This is unusual for many people, and they may be afraid to try something that seems so different.  I encourage you to give these techniques a  try – they are incredibly effective a t increasing pleasure for both men and women, and creating true deep connection in the lovemaking act.

Today let’s move to the second stage of the Tantric breath. This is a type of Yogic breath that requires inspiration (in-breathing) with the nose with a longer exhalation through your mouth.

We are focusing now on the stage when you have just finished the pre-foreplay during which you both connected with your eyes and your heart , taking turn giving and receiving, touching and being touched.  This is the time  when you really feel you want to make those loving feelings larger and higher.  

Now you enter into the actual foreplay, the special time the woman can gets really turned on and has one or more orgasms before the intercourse, and the man places all his full attention in pleasuring her.  At this incredibly sexy point, she can continue to deepen  the Ocean Breath™, amplifying the sounds and the movements that go with it.  That of course, is a great turn on for the man.

The two lovers are fully connected on a psychic/spiritual level and her body is so fully turned on that she can relax even deeper and follow the juiciness of the moment by continuing to use the powerfully feminine Ocean Breath™.  She is enjoying herself without thinking she has to go for orgasms.  The less she’s thinking, the more likely she is to have one or several orgasms.

However, the Tantric approach invites the man — who of course responds by increasing his turn on — to start controlling his sexual energy  at this point, that otherwise would tend to head for the fast release, or at least faster than he wants and she desires.

It is at this point than man shifts to the Yogic breath, or a long 3-part breathing intending the breath to spread out sexual energy throughout the whole body.  The energy is usually becoming very intense, especially for the man who is a good responder to a woman who is really turned on.

This breath is taken in through the nose slowly and slowly exhaled with the mouth slightly open, ready to kiss at any time you or she feel like it.

Breathing this way it is easier for the man to keep  building energy that could result for him, too, in several body orgasms even before intercourse.

In my next post, I’ll discuss the third and final stage of Tantric breathing.

 

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  • Jaeleen January 31, 2012, 2:16 pm

    Great article ~ thanks so much for posting this!