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I have been sharing my knowledge, intuition and wisdom of Tantra for over 30 years through private sessions, personal coaching, workshops, weekend retreats and certifications. My psychotherapy background followed by three decades of intense Tantrika work have given me the gift to provide — as one couple described it – “Deep, direct laser-beam insights” into unconscious relationship patterns.

My goal is to help people on their Path to Better Sex and Real Intimacy.

  • Are you tired of everyday “regular” sex that brings you only temporary pleasure followed by boredom?
  • Are you frustrated by problems with erection or orgasm, looking for a solution that brings you the control you want?
  • Are you struggling under the weight of abuse or hurt in your past?
  • Do you want to recover the sexual excitement you had when you first met?
  • Do you want to take your lovemaking to new heights, making it the foundation of incredible love and connectedness?

Carla Tara - The Intimacy Expert


I’m Carla Tara, and I’ve spent 30 years helping people like you transform their sexual relationships into sources of great pleasure, boundless energy, and deep intimate connection.

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We NEED touch as human beings, and touch is central to an exciting, fulfilling sexual relationship.

Learn the different tantra touches you can use to create sizzling sexual energy and deep fulfilling connection with your lover.

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How do you keep your connection vibrant and exciting? How can you spice up your love-making in a long-term relationship?

Sometimes in a long-term relationship or marriage, life together can get stale, and that leads to boring sex. But it DOESN’T HAVE TO BE! [click to continue…]

Sex gets better when you uand your partner understand each other’s desires. The secret is communicating with words AND bodies, and learning to read your partner to make sex passionate and hot. [click to continue…]

The Art of Touching

Just as knowing techniques of painting doesn’t necessarily make you an artist, knowing tantric techniques does not necessarily make you a good lover.

A good artist goes within and feels what and how he or she wants to express. A good artist doesn’t remember what strokes to make… they dig deep into their own feelings to express the object being painted.

Similarly, when you touch your lover, it’s important to approach it artistically. You dig deep into your own feelings and are present to your lover who’s receiving your touch.

When you touch, choose to express your deep love. You become profoundly present to your touch, feeling your hands flooded with love energy and you are tuning into your lover and feel how he or she wants to be touched.

So basically, you need to be present both to your giving touch and to the receiver receiving it.

What can you do if they are not present? Is there something your can whisper in their ears that will take them away from their thinking mind into the here and now? When we are not present, we are thinking or expecting a result.

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French kissing probably is the signature kissing during the ‘falling in love’ period.

Sadly, for most couples, however, it’s a common sign that the romantic love has taken a backseat. It is wonderful to see couples enjoying kissing with perfect concentration where ever they find themselves, completely ignoring who’s around them. They lustfully merge with each other’s energy and fluids, which starts to speed up the production of happy hormones.

Unfortunately, most lovers who have been together for more that 2 or 3 years, avoid French kissing and substitute it with smooching or pecking kisses that in most cases diminish instead of increasing the turn on.

Why does this happen?

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